PLEASE SPREAD THE WORD ABOUT KATY

The little girl on the left is Katy, (Fang Fang) she is amazingly sweet and desperately wants a family.  She ages out soon so PLEASE spread the word.  She is in Shea's orphanage.  She loves Katy Perry and Justin Bieber, is great with the young kiddies and SPEAKS ENGLISH!!!!  Super smart.  She is a Hep B carrier but healthy.  Please don't leave her behind.  Please repost and share and help find her a forever family soon.

CHRISTMAS, VIDEO AND THE AGONIZING WAIT

Christmas was horrid again, that is 3 years in a row we have had a horrid Christmas.  3 Christmas' ago I lost my mum, last year Molly and I were sick.  This year we were sick again!  Plus I am down as we are STILL waiting for LOA from China.  Today is actually day 99 and I AM SO PISSED OFF.  It is horrid and selfish of me to say but I hate it when I see people getting their LOA after 30 or 40 or 50 days when there are people like me who have waited and waited and waited.  This has been such a horrible adoption journey and yeah yeah worth it in the end I know but GIVE ME A BREAK ALREADY!!!!  Trying to do the right thing does not always work out right does it.  As you can see I am in a bad mood.  I am also fed up once again that you spend years buying everyone else's kids gifts for years and years and the one year you decided not to do it - they don't send to Molly either!  Another thing that totally pisses me off!  My mum always said no one ever remembers what you did for them when it comes to your turn! Anyway here is another video that was filmed the same time as the last but my friend saved for me to send as a surprise.  Poor Shea is totally confused about English :-(  Also here is a picture of the art set I had asked a company to send her - it was not my idea of an art set but this is what they sent her anyway.  I am also waiting to hear about the cake that was supposed to be sent to her for her birthday and that was a week ago grrrrrrrrrr.  This Chinese are not quick to do anything are they other than the NYC subway system or in China town where they push and shove you around to get where they want to go. Oh and the stupid twonk moderators on Rumour Queen warned me they were taking disciplinary action again me coz I wrote 'the one who must not be mentioned' and said I was trying to get my religious message across without saying it therefore still breaking the rules.  DO ME A FAVOR!  I said 'but you have Christmas written all over the place CHRISTmas HELLOOOOOOO!!!'  Oh my dear word!  JESUS JESUS JESUS GOD GOD GOD see I said it - I believe in them both - I believe in the HOLY TRINITY - try kick me off my own blog!!!  If ya don't like that I say Christian related things then bugger off!  Drives me crazy.  I don't care if people write Allah or Jehovah or anything they want, freedom of speech.  Why does it bother people if we write Jesus or God?????????  Whole 'nother story I guess.

HAPPY 12TH BIRTHDAY

Well it sucks coz today she turned 12 and I was hoping that maybe we would get LOA (letter of approval today).  It is day 91 today of waiting for approval  which is just agonizing.  Some people have gotten approval in 30 odd days, some 40 odd and I know of one who waited 170 days OMG I would die!  It has been 9 months already since we started this roller coaster and boy has it been some ride.  I contacted the same agency who sent the books last time to arrange a cake and an art set to be sent.  I had really wanted to cake to arrive today on her birthday but they didn't get it together grrrrrrrrrr.  I have written another letter to be translated and sent to her with the art set (see below).  Molly asked me today if sissy is going to be her and I said I hoped so.  The wait is long for her too now I think.  She really is starting to want a sister.

Sweet daughter,

You have just had a birthday and our hearts hurt because we were not with you.  Next birthday we will have a party for you.  The wait to come and get you is going so slow and taking too long, we wish they would hurry up and let us come but they are taking forever.  We hate that they are making us wait.  Please do not give up on us, we love you so very much but the people who do the paperwork in Beijing are very slow.  We thought we could come in February but now they tell us it may be in April or May.  But once we are together we will be a family forever and that will never change.  We are trying to be patient but we worry about you every day.  We hope you understand it is not us that is taking so long it is the officials in Beijing.  We cannot come until they say we are allowed.  Anyway we hope you liked the cake.  Did you get the photos and the bear we sent with the man who came to visit, Jeff?  We hope you liked them.  Is there anything you need that we can send you?

Your sister, Molly, is so excited to be with you.  She cannot wait to do art projects with you and play games and go to the park and ride bikes.  We will buy you a bike when you are here if you want one.  Can you roller skate?  Molly likes to roller skate.  Me, your mother, cannot but daddy can.  Molly wants to learn Karate or ballet.  What would you like to do?  We all love to watch movies, do you like to watch movies?  We need to give you an English name and we were thinking Shea which means Fairy Palace, do you like it?  If you don’t we can find another name.  What name do you want to be second, we thought Shea Shuyin but would you like Shea GuoGuo more?

It is Christmas in one week and we wish you were with us but next Christmas will be the best and we will have so much fun doing lots of fun things together.  We speak to your friend Wu Yu Qin a lot her new name is Mia.  She is very funny and she loves you and cannot wait to see you again. Molly has a friend here named Ting and she is 10 years old.  She came from China this year and she speaks Mandarin.  She is very funny too.  Do you like to be funny and do funny things and be silly?  We love being silly.  We laugh a lot.  We are going to start getting your bedroom ready and will send a picture when it is ready.  Your bed is going to look very pretty and Molly will also have her bed in the same room as she likes to have company.  You also have a play room too and your own desk.  When you are both older you can have your very own rooms next to each other.  You will love it here, we have lots of fun.  You will go to a very nice school too when you are ready.  Mama will take you and Molly in the morning and pick you both up in the afternoon but Saturday and Sunday we do fun things and sometimes we just relax and stay home playing games and watching movies.  Oh we cannot wait until we are all together.  We love you so much.

Mama, Baba & Molly 

PA AND OTHER NEWS

Look at this little video I got - a little message for us from our sweet girl.  We also got these pictures.  OK so we got PA on Molly's birthday..Dec 5th but were not told until 6th.  So now we restart the wait for LOA again - I suppose they won't take the 2 months we already waited into consideration :-(

My agency's office in Beijing said they think I am a VIP as I have so many advocates ha ha ha.

 I took out the pictures of my friend due to the keep it confident issues :-)

STILL NO PA SO PRAYING FOR A STRAIGHT TO LOA

Could she be anymore stunning?  Well my LOI was re-submitted on Tues Nov 22nd so the CCAA would have gotten it on the 23rd.  I have still not gotten PA (pre approval) it can take up to a month however the majority of people get it within a few days and also considering they have had our file and her file for 3 months and know that our file is for her and her file is for us you would think things would go quick, right?  So since there is still no PA I am hoping and praying that they will just send LOA (letter of approval).   So, how did I get this new pic?  Well during my mission of recruiting anyone who could help me find out her status and all that drama that went on in Oct I met a person who had strong connections with her orphanage but they live in the USA.  This person must remain annon so I will call this person BH for big help.  Well BH was going out to Ankang to do some business and met and talked to Shea YAY.  I had sent BH a little package to take to her prior to leaving.  BH has sent me a few emails from China and they are below.

I am in Ankang and I am tranlsating for Guo Guo:

 

I would love to meet you in person and I want to wish you a Merry Christmas......I miss you!   Ｉｗｏｕｌｄ　ｌｏｖｅ　ｔｏ　ｂｅ　ａ　ｍｅｍｂｅｒ　ｏｆ　ｙｏｕｒ　ｆａｍｉｌｙ　ｓｏｏｎ．．．．

____________

She is absolutely beautiful......wow..........and have NO reason to believe she doesnt want to be adopted.......

_____________

Oh my word....she is absolutely beautiful, fun, and is being loved by everyone at Ankang.

 

I was with She Hi Yen (Assistant directer at orphanage) for 2 days and you all should be fine as long as CCAA doesnt mess anything up which I don't anticipate.

 

She is VERY excited to be adopted and I have a short video for you I have to send when I get home. 

 

Again.....my pleasure to be used by HIM for your family and she is fantastic

________________________THAT EMAIL WORRIED ME SO I EMAILED ASKING WHAT THAT MEANT

No need to worry....
However long CCAA takes is how long it will be until you go get Guo Guo.
I dont know how long that is but She Hi Yen thought you might be coming to China in a month or two?

Dont quote me though as I have no clue.. 

_____________________________

Remember - good things come to those who wait!

I have to say.....she is special and I am so happy for her and your family.

All of the kids at orphanage like her and they are close.  And I see her helping 
take care of the other babies too.  Like a big family.

So that was what I got.  I am of course eager to see the video.  Please all who read this add her into your prayers and that we get to bring her home soon please xxxxx